Saturday, July 11, 2009

Lesson 3




We all know that for a relationship to work it has to be fair... um, no, not fair, what’s the expression we’re looking for… completely and utterly in your favour. That’s it!

Now of course a wise woman knows that it should never actually appear this way (least you be labelled a controlling bitch), but rather it should be an unspoken understanding between you both. The key here is to let him have his way when his way matches yours.




For example, let’s take the old favourite of deciding where to go for dinner.

Now if YOU feel like Chinese but HE is the one to suggest it, let a soft sigh escape your lips as you exclaim “really?” Then take a slight pause before giving him an “OK baby, if it makes you happy, Chinese it is.” Straight away his chest will puff and his pride will swell when he thinks that not only is he getting his way, but that you are giving him something he wants.

The reality of course, will be our little secret.

Of course the key here is that not only did you get your way by giving him his, but now he will feel indebted to give you something you want next time. After all it’s only fair now isn’t it?

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